A grafsteen is a gravestone.

Grave of Dinant Hoitink
This is the grave of my uncle Dinant Hoitink, which shows his favorite toy. I wrote about him in my blog post about researching relatives with disabilities.
In the Netherlands, graves are routinely cleared after a few decades, so we may usually only be able to find gravestones of more recent ancestors. Whether a grave survives depends on the space the cemetery has.
To find a grave, check out these Dutch alternatives to Find a Grave.
