This is the second post in a series about my possible line of descent from Eleanor of Aquitaine. In the first post, I explained how I discovered the possible line, and how I am going to verify it one generation at a time.
Yvette Hoitink, daughter of Els Marijnissen
The first step is to prove that I’m the daughter of my mother, Els Marijnissen. This is the easiest link of all to prove: I grew up with my mom and lived with her until I was 23. There’s never been any doubt that she’s my mother. People tell us all the time how much we look alike, as you can see in this photo.
To protect our privacy, I am not going to show or fully cite the documents, but here’s an overview of the evidence that shows I am indeed my mother’s daughter:
- The certified copy of my civil registration birth record that I obtained from the municipality where I was born lists me as the daughter of the parents I know.
- The birth announcement card sent by my parents lists me as their daughter.
- Hospital discharge papers and photos taken at the hospital shortly after birth confirm I was born to my mother.
- My parents’ marriage booklet lists me as their daughter.
- DNA tests at Ancestry, FamilyTreeDNA, and 23andMe showed my mother and I share the correct amount of DNA for being mother and daughter.
None of these are public records, since these are too recent. Most of these are family records, such as the marriage booklet, hospital discharge papers, and family photos. My birth record is not public since I was born less than 100 years ago, but because it is my own record I could get a copy. The DNA evidence was only available because my mother was willing to take the tests.
These records demonstrate that researching living people relies on their cooperation and family documents. You can’t just go to the archives to get the records you need unless they are your own records.
The personal memories of my mother and myself, the official records, the family records, and the DNA evidence are all in agreement that I’m indeed my mother’s daughter. That’s one generation down, 27 more to go!